13 Misconceptions Women Have About What Men Love
Think you know what men are all about? Think again. For women, figuring out what makes men tick can feel like a never-ending road.
Thanks to the internet, there are more misconceptions about men than ever. These can prevent women from finding their prince charming.
Some women may find men who fit all these misconceptions, so it’s important not to generalize. By avoiding these, you’ll have a better chance of finding the right guy for you. The following list highlights the 13 most common misconceptions women have about what men love, and they are indeed false.
1. Men Don’t Like Emotional Conversations
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This couldn’t be further from the truth. Despite the entire David Goggins’s bravado, most men appreciate open and honest communication about their feelings. In fact, when men truly open up, they can talk about their feelings for hours.
They might not open up to other men because of the societal image of “true” men as masochists. In contrast, men find it easier to express their emotions when speaking with women. It’s not like men don’t like to talk about their feelings; they often need a judgment-free environment to uncoil.
2. Men Only Like Thin Women
If men’s tastes were as predictable as the plot of an 80s rom-com movie, the world would be boring. But the truth is, men’s preferences are as diverse as the women they are attracted to. While society and the media may promote unrealistic body standards, real men are attracted to various body types.
Some may prefer the petite and slender. Some go gaga for the curves, and many fall for the girl-next-door charm. The point is that attraction comes in all shapes and sizes, and there’s no universal blueprint for what men find attractive.
3. Men Only Love to Have a Good Time
Most women are under the impression that men are all about living for the weekend, partying hard, and avoiding anything serious. Hey, everyone loves to have a good time. So, why lay all the blame on men?
In addition to enjoying sports, barbeques, and hanging out with the bros, men also crave emotional intimacy just as much as women. You’d be surprised how many men are equally interested in creating lasting bonds.
4. Men Don’t Like Commitments
Now more than ever, women must know that not all men are the same. The age-old stereotype that men disappear on a milk run at the first sight of responsibility has become outdated. Commitment is scary, but contrary to popular belief, most men try hard to build something real.
Just like women will only marry and start a family if they are sure of the guy first, men also like to take their time. Once they find someone special, they share inside jokes and debate who gets the pizza’s last slice. They won’t miss a second to build a future together.
5. Men Love To Be the Only Ones in Control
It’s 2024. What does a typical household dynamic look like? Let me tell you that it’s not a man shouting orders but rather a collaborative effort and teamwork. Most men are just as likely to offer you that last pizza slice as they are to let you make major decisions.
Women often overlook how many good men feel emasculated because they’re not the control freaks society wants them to be. These quiet men make up the majority.
6. All Men Love Their Sports
Although it looks like men are born with a sports playbook etched in their minds, there’s more to it. Some may argue over favorite players and the latest game stats, but that’s one of many ways we connect. And remember, sports aren’t every man’s cup of tea.
Many men (including me) are uninterested in the latest game or score. They’re busy with hobbies like reading, hiking, cooking, or messing with their cars.
7. Men Love To Fix Things
Ladies, while you may imagine the man of your dreams to be the perfect plumber or electrician, he might not. For some men, unclogging a drain or fixing the roof tiles is as exciting as watching paint dry.
So, if your dream guy isn’t handy with a wrench or can’t tell a Phillips head from a flathead, don’t worry. Your man can help differently by boosting morale with jokes or ordering takeout. It’s okay to leave the boring stuff to the pros.
8. Men Love Their Daughters More
Women, especially wives and mothers, know their daughters’ fathers have a soft spot for them. But this doesn’t mean that they love their sons any less. Most fathers are indeed over-protective of their daughters, and with good reason.
However, the same level of care extends to their sons in its own way. They love enjoying tea parties and heartfelt talks with their daughters as much as playing catch or fishing with their sons.
9. Men Love To Fight
The idea that men like receiving and inflicting pain is outdated and needs to be retired. While it may seem true for some hotheads, many want to maintain peace and avoid a fight.
Ladies, don’t be surprised if you find yourself in a pickle with tough-looking characters at the bar. Your boyfriend might take his time to come to your rescue. He might think, “I came here for the free wings, not to star in an action movie.”
10. Men Don’t Like Independent Women
Think about it. What man wouldn’t love a woman who can balance a great relationship, nail a work presentation, and still make time for date night? The idea that men feel threatened when a woman earns more than them is simply untrue.
Men are inspired and assured that they are with someone who doesn’t need constant hand-holding, assurance, or a knight in shining armor. What men dislike is when successful women blur them out, making them feel unnecessary or undervalued.
11. Men Only Love Physical Intimacy
While studies and articles about men’s thoughts about adult relations may seem true, they don’t paint the whole picture. If they did, men wouldn’t get anything done. They crave deep emotional and spiritual connections as much as women.
Yes, most men frequently think about adult relations, but that’s a part of being human. Men also spend their evenings contemplating the meaning of life, reading books, and figuring out their cat’s mysterious behavior.
12. Men Don’t Like to Be Complimented
This misconception is like someone claiming that men don’t like a good, juicy steak; utterly baffling. In reality, almost all men appreciate a pat on the back. They might answer with a slight nod or a simple “Thanks,” but inside, they are probably celebrating, doing the Macarena.
So, don’t hold back the next time you feel like complimenting a man. A compliment may seem nothing, but it can turn ordinary days into something special.
13. Men Hate Domestic Duties
Women are under the impression that men are only interested in domestic lives when they grab the TV remote for the sports channel. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Most love doing chores with their family, while some have enthusiastically taken over the reins.
It’s proof that there are now more “househusbands” than ever. That’s right! Men who have embraced their household’s “womanly” duties are real. These men embrace household duties with the same commitment they put into their careers. It’s not just a passing trend; it’s a growing reality.
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